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For ease of reading we have used
female pronouns throughout this section when referring to
victims of domestic violence. Although the vast majority of
victims are female, this is not to suggest that men are
never victims.
Domestic abuse
is a pattern of aggressive and intimidating behaviors that abusers
use to control their intimate partners through fear and
intimidation, often including the threat or use of violence. Abuse
can be verbal, emotional, physical, sexual and/or economic and is
based on power and control. The abuser believes he is entitled to
control his partner, control how she thinks, feels and behaves.
People often think of domestic violence only in terms of the cuts
and bruises that we can see. In reality, it is a pattern of assaultive and
coercive behaviors, designed to control another person.
Some examples of abuse:
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Physical abuse includes a wide range of
behaviors, from restraint through slapping and hitting, forcing drug
consumption or withholding medication, to aggravated assault and
homicide; |
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Sexual abuse is defined as anything from
sexual activity forced after a physically abusive incident, to
threats of infidelity, coerced sex acts, forcible intercourse,
denial of contraception, coerced abortion to sexual mutilation;
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Emotional abuse includes threats, name
calling, intimidation, degrading or contemptuous behavior,
withholding communication, yelling and isolating you from friends,
family, society; |
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Economic abuse occurs through direct or
indirect manipulation or domination of family finances, the
abdication of financial responsibility, or disposition of the
personal property of family members without consent; |
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Destruction of property includes
vandalism of the home, car or other personal assets; |
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Threats or acts of abuse against
children, significant others or family pets for the purpose of
manipulating or punishing the victim. |
This information was obtained from the Wisconsin Coalition Against
Domestic Violence (WCADV). WCADV is a statewide, non-profit
membership organization of battered women, formerly battered women,
domestic abuse programs, and individuals committed to ending
domestic violence. |
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