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Dating Violence
We would hope that teens
experience healthy, happy relationships based upon mutual caring and
respect. Unfortunately, violence and abuse happens far too frequently
in teen dating relationships.
Dating Abuse is when one partner
in a relationship is abusing, or threatening to abuse, the other
partner. Abuse can involve physical violence (hitting, slapping,
hair pulling, etc...), emotional abuse (name calling, degrading
statements, threats, etc...), and/or sexual harm (unwanted or forced
sexual contact).
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Signs and Consequences of Dating
Violence:
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Victims often experience physical
injuries, lack of concentration, depression, shame, anxiety,
and/or other negative reactions. |
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A teen who is being abused, may start
to do poorly in school or wear clothes to hide injuries. |
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A teen may become isolated from
friends, only being allowed to spend time with the abuser.
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Since teens are just beginning to
learn about relationships, experiencing dating violence may have
a lasting negative impact on their adult relationships.
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Ways to Prevent Dating Violence
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Teens need to be aware that violence
and abuse in a relationship is never all right, and should not be
ignored or explained away. |
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Adults should talk with teens about
how to solve problems within a relationship, and that they
should expect to be treated with respect by their dating
partner. |
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Males should be encouraged to use
their strength positively. |
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Females need to know they are more
than their looks, and that not having a relationship is better than an
unhealthy one. |
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Teens need to see adults modeling
healthy relationships. |
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